MEN'S INFIDELITY

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Inspired by with the Japanese writer Teri Miyamoto's novel, Kinshu: Autumn Brocade, here are some myths about infidelity:


- Just because he tells you he is different from other men that he doesn't cheat, that doesn't mean that he is telling the truth
-Just beacuse he is unattractive that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat. Good-looking & Ugly ones alike cheats
- Just because he says I love you to you a thousand times every day that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat
- Just because you take good care of him & love him like the way he wants to be love
that doesn't mean he won't cheat
- Just because he may seem to trust you of his access to his personal account
that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat
- Just because he kisses your forehead & reassure you daily that you are the only woman in his life,
that doesn't mean he won't cheat
- Just because both of you may seem blissfully happy and enjoy each others company when you see each other,
that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat
- Just because he said he will marry you and plans for the 1st name of your first child,
that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat
- Just because he may seem aloof and unfriendly with other women other than you,
that doesn't mean he won't cheat
- Just because he prays the rosary daily & go to mass every Sunday,
that doesn't mean he won't cheat
- Just because you are together for so long and never cheated on you,
that doesn't mean he won't cheat
- Just because you feel assured that he will never cheat on you,
that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat
- Just because his eyes twinkle when you see each other and tells you daily when you are apart that he misses you & can't wait to see you,
that doesn't mean he doesn't cheat

This is not something to scare women. Just take better protection of your hearts, girls. We all deserve a good man who will take good care of our hearts and would not want any other girl(s) but only his special someone in his life. Sounds mythical but I believe there are such a thing as a faithful, good man. Don't lose hope. And FYI, women cheat too. So men, protect of your hearts too.....

5 comments

  1. sounds so familiar...worst is, they deny it to death though they're already caught red-handed

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  2. that shouldn't stop us being our fabulous self..... we all deserve better

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  3. but OF COURSE WE DO!!! one man's loss is another man's GAIN AND LONG PRAYED FOR GIFT... that's unless you joined the ... club wink wink**

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  4. Anonymous10:16 PM

    Wow! Very well said. An eye opener for me (once again). Kinda scary but it's true. But I'm living in the moment believing in only positive thoughts. The mind can do tricks on you. You may seem paranoid but funny that we women have that gut feeling that something is really fishy when everything seems alright, something isnt right, you know what i mean? And most of the time, we're right. Im glad you made that move...

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